About Esme

Time to update this:

I am Esme-well, Esme is my dating persona.  But yes, I am Esme.  I was in an abusive marriage for ten years, finally got enough balls (ovaries?) to leave and start over.  I went to therapy, realized it was not my fault, but the dumb-shit’s I was stupid enough to marry.  Once I felt ready, I started to date again and Oh My Gawd! I learned a few new things:

1.  The dumb-shit was wrong: I am not ugly, and guys-and some girls!-very much want me.

2.  Men are easy to please, easy to read, and easy to figure out.  It makes them easy to use and abuse.  There really is no challenge here.

2a.  I miss the challenge.

3.  I did not know sex could be phenomenal.

4.  I much prefer uncommitted relationships.

5.  I am one HELL of a sexy, sensual, amazing, fantastical, awe-inspiring woman.  And any man in this galaxy would be fortunate to get up on this.  Physically and emotionally.  Just sayin’.

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16 Responses to “About Esme”

  1. Adventuresaurus Girl August 30, 2009 at 2:40 pm #

    Hi Esme,

    Please feel free to link me. I am glad you enjoy the blog.

    I am sorry to hear about your marriage and divorce. Hope you find what you are looking for.

    Best!
    Adventuresaurus Girl

  2. DC Dating Diva August 30, 2009 at 6:54 pm #

    Hey Eseme,
    Thanks for stopping by my blog, I will def keep up on yours to learn the latest, as you get back into the dating scene cause what I have read thus far…speechless! Thanks for thinking of me to link, feel free to do so.

    Diva

  3. Carrie Blogshaw September 18, 2009 at 2:47 pm #

    Hi Esme,
    Great blog! Check mine out – I have been a serial singleton for years now adn after suffering many ridiculous dates and relationships, I have finally found an amazing man. The stories will make you laugh for the rest of your life!!!
    Carrie Blogshaw

  4. Natasha July 12, 2010 at 4:19 am #

    Hi Esme,Great blog! Check mine out – I have been a serial singleton for years now adn after suffering many ridiculous dates and relationships, I have finally found an amazing man. The stories will make you laugh for the rest of your life!!!Carrie Blogshaw
    +1

  5. KaPau! July 27, 2010 at 8:23 pm #

    “to protect the really bad daters”….lol…that is just great!! Looking at all these ppl who respond in a similar dating sitch…it’s nice to get reassurance that all may not be lost in the world of dating…at least it might prompt a few really good laughs and we all need that sometimes!!

  6. Anonymous September 6, 2010 at 6:01 pm #

    “to protect the really bad daters”….lol…that is just great!! Looking at all these ppl who respond in a similar dating sitch…it’s nice to get reassurance that all may not be lost in the world of dating…at least it might prompt a few really good laughs and we all need that sometimes!!
    +1

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  8. Q January 22, 2011 at 7:28 am #

    Brilliant blog! Love your style. I think my favorite word is “moxie”, and it’s all you, baby! I’ll be a regular reader!

    • Esme January 22, 2011 at 4:46 pm #

      Oh my god, your website is amazing! What a great concept!! I heart it. Thanks for checking me out, and I will definitely be keeping up with you!

      • Q February 6, 2011 at 10:03 am #

        Aw, shucks, thanks girl! We do try.

        We’re actually doing some fun stuff for V-day. Betty (our fearless Avatar) has decided that ladies everywhere need some good old fashion pepper and sass this V-day, coming from a woman who KNOWS how it is. If you’re interested, shoot me an email (Q@pinkkisses.com)!

        pk2u!

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  12. hb October 24, 2011 at 2:38 pm #

    Hi Esme

    I heart your blog and havent found a lot else like it..

    Would you do me the honour of checking out mine?

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  13. lipstickandplaydates January 31, 2012 at 1:58 pm #

    You and I are cut from the same cloth. Your story is mine…well, sorta. A lot of abusive men and been trying to get back on track. Oh, and I too like sex.

  14. Aurathena March 14, 2012 at 2:42 pm #

    Hi! I’ve nominated you for the Versatile Blogger Award! Congratulations on being such an incredible blogger!

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