Remember Safety? So Done…

12 Nov

Some of you may remember Safety.  We began e-mailing a number of months ago, after meeting on the internet.  Sigh…I am truly calling an end to this internet dating thing.  But let me wrap up all of the loose ends…

According to Safety, he travels extensively for work.  To the point where he is home only a few days at a time, then is gone for weeks on end.

Yesterday he text messages me, tells me he is home, and is leaving again in the morning, would I like to finally meet up.  Thursdays are notoriously bad for me, but I was actually eager to meet this guy after all of these months.  I told him tonight would be great, and I cancelled my plans.  Shame on me.

I asked him what it is he wanted to do, and he said ‘I don’t know’.  Hmmm…I asked if he had any ideas what-so-ever.  He said ‘None’.  This is my absolute pet peeve.  Don’t ask me the fuck out, then don’t have any fucking idea of what you want to do.  It does not fly with me.

I was trying my best.  I offered several suggestions.  Dinner?  No, I don’t feel like eating.  Walk along the beach?  No, I don’t feel like walking.  What the fuck?? He didn’t even counter with anything, just shot down every suggestion I had.  I finally had it.

You know what, Safety?  I am playing the girl card here.  You asked me out, so you figure out what you want to do.  Get on the internet, research it, call your friends, whatever you need to do.  You tell me where you want to go, and I will meet you wherever at seven o’clock tonight.

A couple of hours later I actually received this text message:  I can’t come up with anything.

My response:  Fine.

I truly hope this guy never contacts me again.  Who in the hell does that?  Am I wrong in being upset, or even fed-up over this?  If you are going to ask me out, at least have an idea of what you want to do!  Any why in the hell is a drink and a walk such a bad thing?  Fuck this guy…he probably had a closet full of Ed Hardy clothes and thinks Criss Angel is the next coming of Christ.

Good Lord dating is taking up way too much of my energy…I think I am just going to look for a fuck buddy instead…

Much love, Esme


2 Responses to “Remember Safety? So Done…”

  1. Ric November 14, 2010 at 5:26 pm #


  2. nikki04 November 23, 2010 at 4:27 pm #

    OMG that is amazing.

    As in… so the opposite of amazing. WTF?

    I am even speechless.

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